Funeral Etiquette
Knowing a few simple customs can help you feel more comfortable at a visitation or a funeral.
When to Visit
Visiting the family at home is appropriate, but the funeral home is the best place to offer condolences.
Before the service, you can help by bringing food, running errands, or helping with childcare.
What to Say
A few kind words let the family know you care. Avoid airing grievances or saying that the person is in a better place.
At the Service
Arrive on time and enter quietly. The first rows are usually reserved for family, so sit behind them if you are not family.
Put your phone away, and step outside if you must take a call. If you bring children, explain beforehand what will happen and how to behave.